Absence is still a choice

This book was not written to comfort parents.

It was written to name patterns I’ve seen repeated too often to ignore — patterns that damage quietly, excuse themselves easily, and leave children to manage consequences alone.

I’m not interested in perfect parenting or moral theater. I’m interested in responsibility that holds under pressure.

Some readers will feel recognized by these pages.
Others will feel challenged.
Both reactions are acceptable.

What matters is honesty.

If you’re looking for reassurance, this book isn’t for you.
If you’re willing to look directly at what absence costs, read on.